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I’ve been in a traditional marriage for 50 plus years where the man controlled the spending.

I had to find alternative ways of asserting power and control because l didn’t want my daughters to be fooled into believing this system was acceptable.

Each has made decisions that assert their own power.

My son stayed tied to the home for 10 years after he graduated college. He saved money, did gig work and bought books!

His future wife is a research scientist who insisted that he get a full-time job.

No surprise: he moved out, shared the rent with her and is working fulltime for a nonprofit that helps the homeless.

Hallelujah!

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